My best friend died a number of years
ago. He was like the older brother I
never had, and I looked up to him. We
hunted, fished, camped, canoed and got drunk together. I still miss him.
After his
death his son and I became close. He
looked up to me as a connection to his dad.
We hunted, fished, camped, canoed, road motorcycles and got drunk
together. He is like a little brother.
When I
retired from the military I went to college and then went to Alaska for a
number of years. I got a graduate degree
in Alaska. I am totally committed to my
wife and don’t do the activities I did before – I don’t do anything that she
and I can’t enjoy together.
Now I get
together with my friend and it is strained.
We have almost nothing in common except memories. I am the one that has changed. He works in a
fiberglass mill, he owns an assault rifle, I am sure he voted for Trump, he still
does all the things that we use to do – and I somewhat miss it. But most of all I miss the friendship and
closeness we once had. I feel certain that my attending college was
the first step that separated us. I can
remember as an enlisted man in the military my resentment toward officers who
held a position over me simply because of a few years in college.
It bothers
me that my little brother somehow looks at me as elitist, possibly feeling that
I look down on him. I don’t think we can
ever cross the divide that now separates us – it would require me going back to
who I use to be; but I love him and miss him.
I see a
correlation between my relationship with my little brother and politics in
America.
The
Democratic Party constantly made snobbish comparisons of college educated to non-college educated people voting for Hillary.
I am sure that education arrogant statements turned off a lot of people, both Republicans and Democrats, who didn’t have the
advantage of attending college – It struck me as elitist. It gave the impression that Democrats feel
that college educated people are smarter than non-college educated people.
The
Democratic Party’s aura is elitism. If
we are to succeed as a party in the future, we have to bring it down and say it
is not about us, but about the issues we believe in.
There is a divide between Democrats and Republicans that may never be bridged; but we can stop turning off possible crossover voters with condescending statements and attitudes.
Our eyes should be on the election 2018 and on state and local elections.
Where am I
going with this? Hell I don’t know.
the Ol’Buzzard