Psychologist
have an ongoing debate of ‘nurture or nature’ as the primary contributor to
human development. We are a product of
our social experiences, learning and social norms; but we are a young species that
just stepped out of the trees on the African plains some four million years
ago.
In the
process of evolution, the primary aim of every species is to reproduce itself. Embedded in our DNA is the sequence that has
allowed our species to survive – and some might say too successfully for our
own good.
The human
animal reproduces sexually. Women and
men have different functions in reproduction. Women produce approximately 250 eggs in their
lifetime. One ejaculation of a man
contains more than enough sperm to impregnate every female in the United
States.
Women, once
impregnated, experience a lengthy pregnancy, during which she nourishes the
developing young in her body, then after birth provides nourishment, security
and comfort for a helpless infant.
After birth
man’s instinct is to provide and protect his sexual partners, and by extension
the children, from environmental dangers and other males.
Women until menopause,
and men throughout their lifetime have the desire to copulate. This is the animal side of our DNA that ensures the continuation of the species.
In the evolutionary
process of genetic replication, women’s success depended on the number of
children she could produce and nurture, and man’s success was decided by the
number or women he could inseminate.
Ahh, there
is the rub.
With the advancement of cultural norms and
science and technology, the reproduction of the species no longer defines the
roles of women and men. Women are now
moving into Maslow’s definition of Self Actualization – pride in self and
accomplishment.
This is an adjustment
that conflicts with four million years of human development.
We, as a
species, are going through a struggle to redefine the roles of women and men
into the future. The acceptance of sex
and sexual desire has to have a place in those social norms and, a definition
between sexual predation and sexual invitation must be understood.
the Ol’Buzzard
"This is the animal side of our DNA that insures the continuation of the species"
ReplyDeleteWho does our "animal side" do business with to "insure" mankind's continuation? Liberty Mutual? Progressive? Nationwide? State Farm?
I think you meant "ensure". I'm quite certain of that.
OK Tal - you got me. I'm old and my brain's hard drive is slowing down. That's my excuse and I'm sticking with it.
DeleteDo appreciate your input - made the change
thanks
O'B