My best friend died a number of years
ago.   He was like the older brother I
never had, and I looked up to him.  We
hunted, fished, camped, canoed and got drunk together.   I still miss him.
After his
death his son and I became close.  He
looked up to me as a connection to his dad.  
We hunted, fished, camped, canoed, road motorcycles and got drunk
together.   He is like a little brother.
When I
retired from the military I went to college and then went to Alaska for a
number of years.  I got a graduate degree
in Alaska.  I am totally committed to my
wife and don’t do the activities I did before – I don’t do anything that she
and I can’t enjoy together.
Now I get
together with my friend and it is strained.  
We have almost nothing in common except memories.  I am the one that has changed. He works in a
fiberglass mill, he owns an assault rifle, I am sure he voted for Trump, he still
does all the things that we use to do – and I somewhat miss it.     But most of all I miss the friendship and
closeness we once had.    I feel certain that my attending college was
the first step that separated us.   I can
remember as an enlisted man in the military my resentment toward officers who
held a position over me simply because of a few years in college. 
It bothers
me that my little brother somehow looks at me as elitist, possibly feeling that
I look down on him.   I don’t think we can
ever cross the divide that now separates us – it would require me going back to
who I use to be; but I love him and miss him. 
I see a
correlation between my relationship with my little brother and politics in
America.  
The
Democratic Party constantly made  snobbish comparisons of college educated to non-college educated people voting for Hillary. 
 I am sure that education arrogant statements turned off a lot of people, both Republicans and Democrats, who didn’t have the
advantage of attending college – It struck me as elitist.  It gave the impression that Democrats feel
that college educated people are smarter than non-college educated people.  
The
Democratic Party’s aura is elitism.   If
we are to succeed as a party in the future, we have to bring it down and say it
is not about us, but about the issues we believe in.  
There is a divide between Democrats and Republicans that may never be bridged; but we can stop turning off possible crossover voters with condescending statements and attitudes. 
Our eyes should be on the election 2018 and on state and local elections. 
Where am I
going with this?  Hell I don’t know. 
the Ol’Buzzard