My wife and
I spent over a decade in the Indian and Eskimo villages of Alaska. One of the things we heard when we first
arrived was ‘White man talk too much.”
A white man
would come in and say ‘It’s cold outside…’ The northern Native would not say
that because at -45 degrees it is obviously cold outside.
The Natives
don’t feel the necessity of stating the obvious. They speak what is necessary. White people can not stand a void in conversation
– we feel we have to fill in the void even if it is just babble.
If a Native grandfather
is working on a canoe and the grandson wants to assist, the grandfather will
hand the boy a tool and show him how to use it.
He will stop and assist the boy when he is not doing it correct; but few
words will pass between them.
White musher:
It’s four-o-clock and getting dark, I had better go out and feed the dogs while
there is still some daylight. We need to
get some more dog food when we go into town.
I am worried about my second lead he seems not to be eating well. Do you know where my glove liners are? I took
the off when I came in yesterday. I
shouldn’t be long.
Native
musher: Go feed dogs.
The Ol’Buzzard
This brought a flashback to my DS as a small child. After he figured out on his own how to start the computer, I got him a couple of computer games. I hoped these would make him happy and he wouldn't go "exploring" and goof up settings and deleting things, etc. It worked. While learning to play the games, I found out fast words didn't work nearly as well as keeping my mouth shut, except to say "other button", and pointing to where he needed to click. Same thing when it came to explaining why I kept beating him in the Hot Wheels race game. No amount of words got the point across about the inner lane being shorter. He got it immediately when I cut 2 pieces of string the same length and showed him the difference when laid out in a curve. I never won a race against him again, unless I managed to get out in front before he did or he crashed.
ReplyDeleteA great illustration of the benefit of few words.
ReplyDeleteChinese use silence to their advantage in negotiating with Canadians and Americans. They sit and say nothing and eventually the other side gives away the farm.